Social etiquette

[puszysty]

My ipod froze and the reset is not working. :(

Question: If you're invited to a bridal shower, but can't make it, do you send a gift anyway, or just your well wishes? I am going to the wedding for this particular person.

Comments

[lls-mutant.livejournal.com]

It's not required to send a gift. I usually do if I actually like the person. :) (I.e., if I'm close to them.) Or if you feel badly sending nothing and you aren't close, send something small.

[puszysty.livejournal.com]

For reference, this is actually one of my best friends. She already knows I'm not coming b/c it's too far away.

[lls-mutant.livejournal.com]

I'd definitely send a gift then. It's not required, but for best friends, I totally do :)

[brighton-girl.livejournal.com]

I would send a gift, or if you can go in on a gift with someone that can attend? That could work too.