posted by [identity profile] blue-crow.livejournal.com at 05:11am on 06/04/2010
Oh, yeah, that sounds... I don't know. I think it becomes a date when you let one person pay? But I guess social interactions are all sort of nebulous anyway.
 
posted by [identity profile] safenthecity.livejournal.com at 04:05pm on 06/04/2010
Unless you run into the sort of guy who insists that guys always pay, endstop. I knew a guy like that in high school... if girls hung out with him, even if it was clearly established friendship, he paid for their food. He didn't care how much you argued. And in the end we kind of gave in because he was rich and spoiled and it was no skin off our nose.
 
posted by [identity profile] kappamaki33.livejournal.com at 11:33pm on 06/04/2010
I will add my completely irrelevant 2 cents of I don't think I'd be able to let a guy pay for my meal--not a judgment call, just a me thing. Hence, I'd probably confuse guys in the opposite direction. ::shrugs:: "Wanna meet up" is ambiguous, but does anybody actually *say* "wanna go on a date"? I don't know.

But yeah, dating is weird. I've always thought our culture does things the wrong way around. Wouldn't it make more sense to get to know somebody, *then* date?

::ends completely useless comment before it gets any more space-wasting::
 
posted by [identity profile] puszysty.livejournal.com at 11:48pm on 06/04/2010
I had a friend like that in high school too. Drove me batty

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