puszysty

Hi. I usually do not reply to someone's comment in someone else's journal like this, so my apologies to puszysty, But keeping in line with the topic here, for sake of discussion, the point about if you wait too long you can "be really screwed up in the mind about it", that's interesting. I've heard/read that before. Is it usually because a person becomes intimidated about sex OR works it up so much in their mind they expect something that's going to blow them through the headboard (if there's a headboard), and once sex happens, and wasn't exactly what they worked it up to be, they're left slightly confused?