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posted by [personal profile] puszysty at 09:59pm on 21/09/2008 under
Ok, I'm stewing and there's next to no one online right now, so forgive me while I vent.

I've had like 5 people tell me no for this thing. It's not like I didn't give enough notice for this thing I'm planning- a week and a half is plenty of time on my friend's clocks usually (heck, most of us plan stuff only 3 days in advance). But darnit if everyone a number of people have plans already! I just....gr. I don't know when I'll be able to see everyone again, you know? I think I have every right to be upset.
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posted by [identity profile] adorkable08.livejournal.com at 03:18am on 22/09/2008
I would be ready to spit NAILS! You're MOVING right? Not 'going away for awhile'? I'm sorry, hom. That blows.
 
posted by [identity profile] puszysty.livejournal.com at 03:22am on 22/09/2008
Yea, I'm definitely moving. Really dang far away. I'm just not sure some people *get* it.
 
posted by [identity profile] adorkable08.livejournal.com at 03:24am on 22/09/2008
Yeah and when you're gone they'll be all 'I miss you' and 'I wish we could hang out'... when they could have come to your dang going away party.
 
posted by [identity profile] puszysty.livejournal.com at 03:27am on 22/09/2008
I've told the ones who said no to stop by some other day this week....I just hope they do.
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posted by [personal profile] pensnest at 08:41am on 22/09/2008
I have every sympathy - this is a *huge* deal for you and you want a chance to say goodbye to everyone properly before you go. The trouble is, it isn't so huge for everyone else, because they aren't the ones who are making this big change to their lives. And perhaps they just haven't thought through the fact that you won't be *there* any more... but I'm afraid it's just that simple: it is a bigger thing for you than for anyone else, because it's your life.

Compensate by having a really good going-away party that all your friends will be talking about, so that the ones who didn't make it will feel they really missed out!
 
posted by [identity profile] la-di-dum.livejournal.com at 09:50am on 22/09/2008
Yeah, I know what you mean... and as pensnest said, it's just not so "huge" for everyone else, until you're already gone and then they're like, "...oh." When I had my going away party, a bunch of people "just couldn't make it" - and I'm talking people who live less than 20 minutes away from me and didn't actually have other concrete plans. It sucks, but people are just kind of clueless sometimes. :-(
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posted by [personal profile] rikes at 10:37pm on 23/09/2008
*hugs* That sucks, and you have every right to be pissed off!

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